4.Softball Violence was up this year. I was part of it at times. For example, in game two of the BASL Championship 5 People were ejected It was ugly. I went after 2 people. Violence is not the answer. not in softball, not in life.
3. NY Fast Pitch Weintraub Loss - made series costing error. Pain. No excuses.
However, 2016 is almost here and it's time for Malo Pa Fuera, but before I do that the video below captures some of the special people and moments of 2015 as
"Should old acquaintances be forgotten,
And never brought to mind?
Should old acquaintances be forgotten,
And days of long ago"
.. of Course I didn't use that wack Auld Lang Synesong .. Enjoy and see you in 2016 - Ride or Die
And so this is Xmas (war is over)
For weak and for strong (if you want it)
For rich and the poor ones (war is over)
The world is so wrong (if you want it)
And so happy Xmas (war is over)
For black and for white (if you want it)
For yellow and red ones (war is over)
Let's stop all the fight (now)
A very Merry Xmas
And a happy New Year
Let's hope it's a good one Without Any Fear.
Softball Relevance: None really.
Just a brave message from a brilliant artist killed by a madman with a gun 35 years ago.
The world is a fucked up place right now, Softball helps us forget the fucked up shit we deal with every day. Hopefully, next year things will be better.
Without Any Fear.
and the Number One Softball Christmas song
1. SoftballGodsDestiny
"Have Yourself A Merry Little Christmas Lyrics" ... Frank Sinatra
I love Frank Sinatra. He was the Man.
Best Softball Relevant Line :
"Faithful friends who are dear to us
They gather near to us once more, ooh
Through the years we all will be together and If the fates allow"
Hopefully the Softball gods will allow us to spend more time together in the future enjoying the most frustrating game on earth with one another.
I'll get to that shortly, but first let me get the How I beat Choice Parts blog out of my system before the year closes out.
Top Ten Reason I Beat Choice Parts
10. I didn't play.
Now I know the anonymous goon comment crowd out there will say "this should be number one"... lol.... , but in the bigger picture I knew the team needed me to manage, not play.
It hurt not playing, but I did it b/c:
The Team needed to see my unselfishness and see my resolve to winning. To their credit the guys did. I had minimal problems. Team Chemistry was very good
I needed people to keep coming. It cleared up spots, especially for package deal guys.
Blonde - Pacienca y Fe plus ignore ignore ignore all goons. Never panic. Never.
Bob - Pretended to be a bobo but care about winning
Dio - Relentless recruiting, deep roster, and be creative. Everyone played, except me.
John "Championship Manager" Shepard - Tenacity and Resolve. Only thing I couldn't copy from him was his immaculate hand writing and raspy voice.
I took all of that and trusted my gut, my instinct, my experience, my insanity, I knew my roster better than they knew themselves.
One more thing, I reminded myself to trust my instincts not my impulses. Instinct was a feel on right and wrong, impulse was a risky knee jerk reaction. Instinct > Impulse
Applied Mickey Peckinms incredible preparation skills to my pre-game routine.
Applied Rosenmiller's Recruiting instincts/ethics and political skills. Rosenmiller inspired me to recruit and forge an alliance with Mike Trenk. I asked myself "Would Rosenmiller do it? And if the answer was yes. I did it"
Made sure to use the grandfather rule and get Sito to qualify. proved crucial when Cabessa went down at SS. No Mercy. The Choice Parts way.
7. No John Brown.
Once the League was modified I knew the playing field was now level.
6. Luck
As a manager - Almost every good move I made worked. Almost every bad move I made worked. I was lucky
As a team - when you score the tying run in the deciding championship game on a throw that hits the ump in the head/back it's your year. The Softball gods are with you.
5. Checked Ego, Leadership and Alliance
I completely checked my Ego (signed Gil) and refused to panic
Butchy was my #1 priority in off season. I knew half the team wouldn't listen to me, so I needed someone they would listen to. - That was Butchy. Born Leader. Winner. A team needs an on the field leader and that was him. I learned a lot from him. He never challenged my authority, he only helped. Winner,
Alliance - As mentioned above, reaching out my hand to Trenk was brave and bold. We needed someone who rarely makes defense mistakes, competitive, and is self motivated. It showed everyone that I was willing to do anything to win. He had an amazing year in lead off role and I am happy to have made a new friend (make that 2 friends as his brother Larry is awesome as well).
4. Losing
Starting 1-5 was key. It made me see our weaknesses, see our needs, I was determined to not use any pitcher that threw a straight fastball. Needed risers, knuckleballs, change ups. Swallowed my pride and signed Gil. My pitching staff gave up 2 homers all year. Freddy never lost. In modified that is unreal.
P.S Fuck all those no class bastards who tried stealing our players when we were 1-5. The softball gods paid you back.
3. No Legacy Issues.
While our name was Old School our advantage was that we were a new team.
No one had batted 3rd for 10 years.
No one had been the shortstop 10 years,
No one had pitched for years.
Playing time had to be earned with performance, execution, hustle, and loyalty.
I always knew the Championship would go through Parts, but early on the league didn't know it would also go through us, we kind of snow balled and snuck up on everyone.
2. Identity
The name of the Team was Old School, Not New School - I put all the young players except Gil Jr and Max at the bottom of the order, leaned on my vets at the top. They all bought in Helped Forged an identity.
and the number one Reason I Beat Choice Parts
1. I had Central Park players.
What does that mean?
All Fields line drive hitters
Players who lived close to Field
Versatile players. Dino a godsend.
Depth - Role Players were awesome - Ray, Eric Wu, Anthony, Zach
Players you liked playing there
Players who were motivated to beat the Parts
That How I Beat Choice Parts.
That's it.
Yawn
It's over.
Maybe Old School winning helps the league, Maybe winning destroys the league.
I don't know. In the end, while I was happy to win. I gave those guys everything I had and they gave me everything they had.
I am retiring from managing the team on top and will get back to playing.More importantly, I will work very hard to build the league up this winter as I do care about it's long term health.
Softball has a dark side. I have fallen to it and the conflict, but deep down I know the good is stronger. Hell many people say Softball is dead and bad.But on Saturday October 17th the the"B/C It's "More Than Just a Game" Cancer Charity Tournament"proved "There is still good in the Softball. We sometimes forget it, but there is still good"
We raised $5,520 (waiting on $300 from Con Ed Company match)
But the good did not stop there, Jason Yadoff raised
an additional $1,186 on his own personal page. That's a total of $6,706. There is Still Good Inside of Softball
In The Star Wars Movies the Origin of Darth Vadar was told and so it is only fitting that the original of the Man who inspired this event be revealed
I couldn't do this event without Dio,
for all of you who hate him -Know this-There is good inside him
Teams enjoyed this event as brothers bonded and revealed their true source of inspiration
Shout Out To Classy RC Pirates
RC PIrates - Class Act - They have the Love
Brothers
The Man
The Alliance
While everyone off the field was a winner at this event, the on the field winner was the
Undefeated 5-0 Pocono Pirates
Who were classy and talented Champions
There is still good in softball. May The Force Be With You (so corny yet cool).
The hardest part about fundraising isn't raising money... it's patiently answering every questions. You see when you run a Tourney you might as well have a
button on your chest. My approach is to use the Forest Gump Philosophy:
9. Location questions - Where is it? Is Inwood different from Dyckman? is that the Bronx? Answer: 207th Street Seaman Avenue NY NY 10032 "Yes Drill Sergeant"
4. How do I donate? Answer: use personal fundraising page at Ricardo Ronda Cancer Research Institute Fundraising Page Anyone amount is good - $10, $100, $1,000. Today I received 1K ... Beautiful,, but anything you can give is deeply appreciated and it all adds up. You can post your amount or keep it private. It's all good
"Yes Drill Sergeant" Honestly ask me anything you want as long as you can donate your time, heart, energy to this event I will patiently answer anything you ask.
